Applying for your first job or volunteering opportunity? You may be asked to provide a reference. But what is a reference, and who should you ask?
What Is a Reference?
A reference is someone who can speak positively and honestly about your skills, character, attitude, and experiences. They help an employer or organization learn more about you beyond what is written on your application or resume.
Who Should You Ask?
Choose someone who knows you well and can talk about your strengths, reliability, and work ethic. Good references could include:
Teachers or professors: Someone who has seen your effort and ability to learn.
Coaches or club leaders: Someone who can speak about your teamwork and leadership.
Volunteer supervisors: Someone who has seen you contribute and take responsibility.
Past employers or supervisors: Someone who can describe your workplace skills and attitude.
Community mentors: Someone who can speak about your character.
Who Should You Avoid Asking?
Your best friend, family members, or someone who barely knows you may not be the strongest choices. Most employers and organizations want someone who can provide an honest, professional perspective.
Tips Before Asking Someone to Be Your Reference
Ask first! Never list someone without their permission.
Give them a heads-up. Tell them what opportunity you are applying for.
Share your resume. This helps them remember your skills and accomplishments.
Say thank you!
You don't need years of work experience to have great references. Your involvement in school, sports, volunteering, and community activities can help you build meaningful connections.